I am 14 and this recently happened to me. Well his name is Jesse, he was my best friend and I really liked this guy, but there was one minor detail that stopped everything. He is gay. Well so i thought. We have this relationship a bit like… well Jack and Karen. We would fondle and play around and whatever. Then i started to fall for him, I don’t know whether it was because he was paying attention to me or whether I was truly falling for him all I knew was every time I seen him I would get this excitment sort of feeling. But through it all I knew I couldn’t have him because he is gay. One day then my friend was telling me how she really liked him too then I thought I had better tell her just so she knew and wouldn’t get hurt chasing him around. She already knew, but she still consisted on flirting with and txting him. One night she was talking about him again and she told me that he told her that he was bi. I mean omg I could have snatched him up while i had the chance. I was soooo mad that he told me that he was gay and not anything else. Now he is telling people he is bi. I was sooo confused for awhile, but then realised he is probably more confused then I was.